Crash (2004)

Ashley Esteva

GSR 102

CRASH (2004)

Response to 4 questions

3. Different stereotypes that were found in the movie include: white people being paranoid about minorities wanting what they have, blacks being criminals and thieves, Middle Eastern people being stupid and stubborn, and Hispanics as being thieves and job stealers. I have heard all of these before and I believe that stereo types have not been arbitrarily constructed. Some stereotypes have some validity however I do not think that stereotypes should be used. It is just another way to put people into sub groups and to distance ourselves form other people that we may not wish to come in contact with and by putting others in imaginary boxes it makes it easier for people to deal with other peoples differences.

5. I believe Officer John Ryan needed to risk his life to save Mrs. Thayer because he felt that he needed to redeem himself and correct his misdeeds against Mrs. Thayer. He knows that he was wrong in treating her the way he did previously and this encounter with her trapped in the car may be his last chance to mend his errors. For his conscious, he needs to correct himself otherwise he will have the memory of violating this woman and the letting her burn to death. In his mind he can not betray her twice. He has no other option in his mind than to save her as his way of apologizing to her.

7. I do not believe that citizens should be able to purchase gun. I strongly believe that guns should be ban and that police and law enforcement should have to find alternate ways of subduing people and offenders. I do not think they are for safety I believe the need for guns comes out of peoples paranoia that everyone wants to hurt them and take all of their possessions from them. I am quite aware though that criminals do not fallow laws and would most likely still carry guns however I think that the gun laws and personal possession of guns should be heavily monitored. I do no see the need for these machines of murder and I know there are other ways that could be used.

10. I think ethnicity is something people should have some pride in, I think cultural heritage shapes everyone. Think it is wonderful to be able to learn form other peoples cultural experiences and point of view. I would rather someone ask me what ethnicity I am instead of assuming I belong to a certain group. When someone assumes I am white they automatically disregard any of my history as well as my cultural history. I think having my cultural history is an incredible insult to me and my family. I would rather someone ask me where I come from I want to be able to have the opportunity to explain where I am from and where my family is from and help give the other person a new perspective on what people from that region or country are like, to challenge the experience or expectations they have had with that culture or ethnicity. I think that it is important to know where other people come from and where I come from, I think it brings a beautiful mix of cultures, foods, traditions and perspectives together to share and learn form.

Bad Influence

Ashley Esteva

GSR 102

Bad Influence

This story made me laugh so hard, and not because it was humorous or had jokes, no not at all. I laughed so hard because this is so similar to my family. I come from a big Cuban family. The live in New Jersey and so much of this story holds true. A few years ago I stayed with my grandmother for two weeks. I got to know her better just like Rita got to know her grand parents. My grandmother made huge meals and so much café con leche I though I was going to burst. It was such a great trip, I was apprehensive in the beginning of my trip, as was Rita, being thrown into a whole new culture and using a language that I was not so strong in. I remember watching telénovas that had such outrageous plots that they could not possibly be true but they still captivated my attention none the less. Every day was an adventure for Rita getting to know her grandparents a little more and understanding how they came to be where they are now. I think it is beautiful how Rita’s grandmother shares a secret about her past dreams of becoming a dancer but not being able to accomplish those dreams because she married and had children early in life. I have been told this many times by my own grandmother that education comes first and that I need to put myself first, I need to explore my world before I settle down, I need to live out my dreams before I have to start living with someone else’s dreams. I really see the beauty in Rita’s grandmother’s words as well as with my own grandmother’s words. I feel so happy that I have her and that I have had all the wonderful experiences with her. I know how Rita feels with being sent to stay there and at the end there is no doubt in her mind that she had made the right choice, I know I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to spend with my family. So much of this story reminds me of my family and I love having those memories recalled.

The Circuit

Ashley Esteva

GSR 102

The Circuit

I love this story for so many different reasons. I feel so connected to this story and love every sentence of it. See you may need to know that I love history and throughout college I have taken as many history courses as possible. So last semester I had my History Since 1889 and my very peculiar teacher was very adamant about the class learning about the great depression and the dust bowl which had affected her parents. The story reminded me of the Grapes Of Wrath when the family is migrating from one work camp to another with hopes of finding, but never knowing if there really is any work left by the time they get there. This migrating family of the short story has to migrate to find work and support their family. They are striving to make the generations better. Although the father is unable to send his oldest son to school he is making a great effort to send his second son to school to earn an education. On another level I connect with the second son, Panchito, he went to school late and was not quite ready for his classes because he was starting school so late. Growing up I was always moving to different places and I remember in first grade I ended up attending three different schools that year and I missed picture day in all three schools. I didn’t really fit in anywhere because by the time I had gotten to a school the group dynamics of the class had already been set. For Panchito his best friend was his caring teacher who helped him improve his reading and exposed him to the hopes of learning to play the trumpet. I think it was wonderful how Mr. Lima helped Panchito. He really cared for him and was very sensitive to the young boy’s situation and circumstances. What really stuck with me was after such an amazing school experience and such a zeal for learning he was reminded of just how unstable his home life was when he found that all of his family’s positions were packed up, this has happened to me countless times and the feeling of your hear dropping never fades, it is always there at the worst times. Once I read the last line, I read the line again and again and again, and each time my heart dropped and I knew exactly how Panchito felt at that exact moment.

Rules of the Game

Ashley Esteva

GSR102

Rules of the Game

            I think this is a very relatable story for children who grew up in immigrant or multicultural homes. When Amy Tan describes this story she shows how she grew up and how her life was. Her mother tried to bestow upon her the knowledge she needed and the social skills that would help her through out her life as well as the discipline she would need to keep herself focused. I think it is very poignant to that she explained that she never knew she was poor. I feel many young children do not understand if they are poor or not. When one is so young we sometimes assume everyone else lives like this. Growing up I moved around a lot because my father was in the navy and we did not always live in the best neighborhood or have adequate housing. However, I never understood why I only got hand-me-down clothing and never new clothes. I never understood why my mom was always so cautious about what she made and how much of it she made. Not to say that I ever went hungry, that is not true, but I did not always have a snack when I got home or some times for dinner we would have soup or rice or pasta for a week or two straight. Just like the character Waverly Jong she did not understand her circumstances until she was much older. I really was surprised to see how much Waverly became enthralled in the game of chess. Her brothers got the set as a Christmas present from a local church. She immediately became so absorbed in it and wanted to learn all of the ins and outs of the game so well that she could beat anyone. She kept her focus strong and was a gracious victor. However I start to notice how she starts to loose her temper with her mother. Her mother starts to hover and tries to have her “loose” less chess pieces during her matches. I think Waverly is trying to get out of her family’s shadow more specifically her mothers shadow. I was quite surprised though when Waverly snapped at her mother telling her basically to stop bragging about her because it was embarrassing her. It’s sometimes hard to tell a parent that their actions in regards to you make you uncomfortable. Sometimes it unintentionally hurts their feeling and then once it is said you have to recoil and try to figure out how to recover from the mistakes you have made. At the end of the story that’s what Waverly finds herself needing to do, recover from her actions.

A Gift of Laughter

Ashley Esteva

GSR 102

A Gift of Laughter

I really cherish this story. It is a beautiful story of how a father realizes that some things are more important than money. I believe that it was a good that he had the tools to effectively talk with his son. I was very happy that the father realized his mistakes he had committed. Let me rephrase, I am getting more involves in the stories we are reading for class and I am falling in love with each story in a different way. I see myself writing in each blog post that “I love this story the most” after each new post. I find it comical that I am saying this because with each new story I am taking the story and putting it into my soul. I am connecting with it and valuing it for what it is as a piece of work and creation as well as the meaning of the story being able to connect with my life and my story. I really love this story. Father and mother are arguing about finances. Son comes down and tries to show his father a drawing he is proud of and the father pays him no mind. The miraculous part is that after the father dismisses the son and the young boy goes to his room crying the father is stopped dead in his path and has a flashback revelation. He remembers when he was a kid and throughout his flashback he remembers how his grandmother reacted when he got her a football instead of a fruit bowl. I though the mix-up was hilarious, I do that with my grand mother quite often because of her thick Spanish accent. I love my grandmother without question but just like the father remembering his childhood, I have mistaken what she is saying many times. I love the father’s change of heart and his willingness to admit he was wrong and to try to mend his mistake with his son. It was beautiful how he accepted his sons anger and hurt and instead of just telling him he was sorry he offered to make it up to him by showing his son that he valued his son’s artwork of him and that he valued his son as a wonderful little person. I am very proud of the father for realizing his mistakes and doing the right thing and talking with his son to show the child that he really did care and that he was truly sorry for his actions.